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Nuns bringing relief goods during the lockdown due to COVID-19 last summer. Photo from Facebook.

Our gospel this Sunday is a very usual scene happening daily in our modern world when we keep on testing Jesus Christ like the Pharisees for so many things about life we feel we know better than even God.

We keep on “pushing the lines” to avoid crossing them lest we break the laws and commandments when our hearts are clearly bent more on the legalisms than their spirit and sense.

How unfortunate that until now, when we would rather see the small parts than the whole that we keep on breaking down everything specially laws as if they are entities unto themselves, forgetting that each part leads to greater good.

Such is the essence of the one law of love, love of God is always love of neighbor and vice versa. They cannot be separated, like a face with two cheeks.

But more important than understanding the nature of the law of love which is the inseparability of love of God and love of others is passing its final test of loving.

I have always loved this actual photo of a banana vendor during the lockdown who kept his prices low as part of his effort in alleviating the sufferings due to COVID-19 pandemic. Photo from Smart, March 2020.

We keep on testing Jesus
who has passed every test we have
subjected him into...
Can we pass his test of love, too?

As we come to close our liturgical calendar in the coming weeks, our Sunday gospel today challenges us to examine our very selves too if like Jesus, can we pass the test of love?

When the Pharisees heard that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees, they gathered together, and one of them, a scholar of the law, tested him by asking, “Teacher, which commandment in the law is the greatest?”

Matthew 22:34-36

The scholar’s question to Jesus was partly a result of the confusion among people of his time when their experts and scholars of the Laws broke down into minute details and parts the Decalogue that eventually ended having over 600 precepts including those rituals of cleansing of things Jesus and his disciples were often accused of disregarding whenever they came to gatherings.

The sad thing is that instead of simplifying them so the people may find more the spirit of the Laws than its legalisms, the Jewish leaders “did not lift a finger” about it for selfish motives.

And now they were using it to test Jesus which we sadly continue in our present time.

While it is true that evil exists in lawlessness or when we live lawlessly, God’s law is directly opposed to a legalistic understanding that must be seen always in the light of faith.

This is perhaps the main point of Pope Francis in his recent statement proposing for “civil coexistence law” (convivencia civil) that will protect homosexual people from mistreatment and social rejection even from among their own family circles. The Pope is not calling for same sex civil union nor same sex marriage. We have to go beyond the legalese and legalisms of laws to see the Holy Father’s genuine concern and love for people with homosexual tendencies he had longed to bring back to the fold.

We cannot separate law and love if either is to bring deepened relationships and unity among peoples that are in fact the goals of both law and love. Law and love always take into consideration the other person often forgotten when we have an excess of our very selves.

In the first reading, we are reminded how the laws themselves are manifestations of God’s love for his people, of laws coming directly from him without any hint whatsoever of the distant lawgiver we have always seen and experienced among men.

See how he admonished everyone to be kind with everybody specially aliens for after all, we are all immigrants and travelers of this earth whom he takes care of. In declaring “I am compassionate” (Ex.22:26), God assures everyone of his oneness with us, that to love him is to love others, to hurt others is hurting him too! The very same thing Jesus is telling us today!

He said to him, “You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and the first commandment. The second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments.”

Matthew 22:37-40

Jesus easily passed the “test” by the Pharisees at that instant and would prove it more decisively and concretely on the Cross when he gives himself up to the Father for our salvation as the supreme sign of love that is true.

His answer takes us all to the very foundation of all the laws we have which is loving God with one’s total self expressed in loving others as we love our selves. Here we find Jesus doing away with our legalisms that focus on the letters and individual laws and commandments, summing them all in love.

Again, following the background and personality of Pope Francis, here we find his love in action being bogged down by legalisms and limitations of the language.

What does he really mean with convivencia civil or civil coexistence law minus any romantic meanings in adherence to our moral laws?

I do not know but in my heart, I could feel the love and compassion of this Pope for homosexuals we have long ostracized from the Church and even society, making fun of them, forgetting their feelings and well-being and persons. It might still take some time before the Pope’s idea is realized even in the Church. What we need at the moment is openness to the leading of the Holy Spirit to finally find those words and terms to encapsulate the love and compassion Pope Francis has for them.

That is the problem with love — always beyond words. One has just to do it, to just “love, love, and love” as Leo Buscaglia would always say.

In the second reading, St. Paul reminds us how the world continues to frown upon us Christians striving to live the life Christ had called us to. We can see the continuing biases in the society even in social media against us Christians standing for what is just, moral and true. It is in this context where we are challenged to be true witnesses of the love of Jesus Christ that the credibility of his gospel is proven daily as the only path towards peace and harmony.

Jesus passed the tests of his enemies about his love for God and love for us; all the past Popes have proven too their complete love for God and for others in their lives of holiness. Pope Francis has striven while still in Argentina to witness this immense love of Jesus for the marginalized. Instead of wasting our energies debating about his recent statements despite his being passed the same test of love, let us now examine ourselves how are we faring in this test of love too?

And loving and lovely week ahead of everyone in Jesus!

Photo by author, 2019.

Pagkakaibigan, pinakamabisang daan ng bokasyon-Cardinal Tagle

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Iginiit ni Cardinal Luis Antonio Tagle, Pro-prefect ng Dicastery for Evangelization, na ang pagkakaibigan ang isa sa pinakamabisang daan ng bokasyon, sapagkat sa pamamagitan ng mga tunay na ugnayan nagiging buhay at konkretong karanasan ang pagkilala kay Hesus at ang pagtugon sa tawag ng Diyos.

Tinalakay ito ni Cardinal Tagle sa isinagawang Heart to Heart Talk sa unang araw ng 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE XII) 2026 sa University of Santo Tomas Quadricentennial Pavilion, kung saan ibinahagi nina Sr. Mary Joannie Bolisay ng Sisters of Saint Paul of Chartres (SPC) at Fr. Dean Jerome Cruz ng Diocese of Cabanatuan ang mga pagkakaibigang naging bahagi ng kanilang paglalakbay tungo sa buhay relihiyoso at pagpapari.

Binigyang-diin ni Cardinal Tagle na bagama’t mahalaga ang mga vocation promotion materials tulad ng posters, videos, short stories at seminars, mas nagiging makapangyarihan ang personal na ugnayan at buhay na patotoo ng mga taong nagpapakita ng kasiyahan sa paglilingkod sa Diyos.

“While we appreciate the use of film, mga short stories na nakikita natin sa TV, yung mga posters announcing a diocese, a seminary, a religious order, they’re all good for giving information. But we should not discount the role of friendship in making the face of Jesus, the face of the Church, real to people,” pahayag ni Cardinal Tagle.

Ibinahagi ni Sr. Bolisay na ang kanyang pagtugon sa bokasyon ay unti-unting nahubog sa pakikipagkaibigan niya sa mga seminarista ng Maria Asunta Seminary noong siya ay youth coordinator ng Diocese of Cabanatuan.

Ayon sa madre, ang masayang samahan at dedikasyon ng mga seminarista sa paglilingkod ang naging inspirasyon upang makita niya ang kagandahan ng buhay relihiyoso.

“Iyong joyful disposition ng mga seminarians, ‘yun po ‘yung isa sa mga nakahikayat sa akin na pwede naman palang subukan. At sila din po ‘yung nagpakilala sa akin ng congregation kung saan po ako papasok,” ayon kay Sr. Bolisay.

Samantala, ibinahagi naman ni Fr. Cruz na ang kanyang bokasyon bilang pari ay nagsimula rin sa pag-anyaya at paggabay ng mga kaibigang altar server at youth ministers noong siya ay nasa high school.

Binigyang-diin ng pari na mahalaga ang pagkakaroon ng mabubuting kaibigan maging sa patuloy na buhay-paglilingkod, lalo na sa panahon ng mga pagsubok at panghihina ng loob sa ministeryo.

“Truth and charity, magkakambal po ‘yan para sa growing relationship. You have to be truthful and of course you have to be charitable in expressing the truth para po balanse. Kasi kapag truth lang po, baka po masaktan kung walang charity. Pero kung charity lang, baka puro compromise naman po at wala pong truth. Baka po fake friendship na po ‘yun,” saad ni Fr. Cruz.

Sa pagtatapos ng talakayan, hinikayat ni Cardinal Tagle ang mga mananampalataya na huwag matakot makipagkaibigan at maging saksi ng pag-ibig ni Kristo, dahil ang mga ugnayang binubuo ngayon ay maaaring maging binhi ng mga bokasyon sa hinaharap.

“The seeds of friendship that you sow now will be the harvest of vocation in the future,” ayon kay Cardinal Tagle.

Tema ng PCNE XII ang “Sangkay: I have called you Friends (John 15:15),” na naglalayong palalimin ang diwa ng pagkakaibigan bilang daan tungo sa pagbabagong-loob sa misyon at sa pagbuo ng isang higit na sinodal na Simbahang Katolika sa Pilipinas.

Pag-ibig, pundasyon ng tunay pakikipagkaibigan

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Binigyan-diin ng Prior Provincial ng Dominican Province of the Philippines Father Filemon Dela Cruz Jr., O.P – , ang ‘pag-ibig’ bilang pundasyon ng tunay na pakikipagkaibigan at matatag na ugnayan ng bawat mananampalataya sa kaniyang mensahe para sa 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE) sa University of Santo Tomas.

Ito ay sa kaniyang pagninilay sa session ng “Confessio Peccati et Laudis: Healing and Nurturing Relationships,” na nakatuon sa pagpapanumbalik at pagpapatibay ng mga ugnayan.

Ayon kay Fr. dela Cruz, ang tunay na pagkakaibigan ay nakaugat sa pag-ibig na nag-uudyok sa tao na pahalagahan, ingatan, at alagaan ang kapwa.

Iginiit niyang ang pagmamahal ay hindi lamang damdamin kundi isang desisyon na kilalanin ang dignidad at kahalagahan ng bawat tao, na siyang nagpapatatag sa mga ugnayang humuhubog sa pamayanan ng pananampalataya.

“Friendship is friendship in love, kaya kapag ika’y nagmahal, iingatan mo ang halaga ng isang tao pinapahalagahan mo ang taong yan, kaya mahal kita l, mahalaga ka sakin,” ayon sa pagninilay ni Fr.Dela Cruz

Binigyang-diin din ng pari na ang pagpapahalaga sa kapwa ay nagiging daan upang mapagaling ang mga nasirang relasyon at makabuo ng mga pamayanang nagkakaisa sa diwa ng pakikinig, pag-unawa, at pagmamalasakit. dahil ang tunay na pagkakaibigan ay naipapakita sa konkretong pag-aaruga at patuloy na pag-akay sa isa’t isa tungo sa pag-ibig ni Kristo.

Kaugnay nito, umaasa si Fr. dela Cruz na magsisilbing inspirasyon ang PCNE 2026 upang higit pang mapalalim ang kultura ng pagkakaibigan at pagmamahalan sa loob ng Simbahan, kasabay ng paghahanda ng mga mananampalataya para sa Evangelization 2033, sa pamamagitan ng paghubog ng mga disipulong handang magmahal, maglingkod, at maghatid ng pag-asa sa kapwa.

Pagkakaibigan, mahalagang pundasyon ng sama-samang misyon sa pagpapalaganap ng ebanghelyo- Papal Nuncio sa mananampalataya

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Binigyang-diin ni Apostolic Nuncio to the Philippines Archbishop Charles John Brown na ang tunay na pagkakaibigan na nakaugat kay Hesukristo ang mahalagang pundasyon ng sama-samang misyon ng Simbahan sa pagpapalaganap ng Ebanghelyo.

Sa kanyang mensahe para sa 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE XII), sinabi ng kinatawan ng Santo Papa sa Pilipinas na ang pagkakaibigan ay isa sa pinakadakilang kaloob ng Diyos sa tao, kasunod lamang ng mismong buhay, sapagkat ito ang nagpapatatag sa mga pamayanan at nagbibigay ng tunay na kagalakan at pag-asa.

Ipinaliwanag din ni Archbishop Brown na ang tunay na pagkakaibigan ay hindi nakabatay sa pakinabang o pansariling interes kundi sa kalayaan, kabutihang-loob, at tapat na pagmamahal sa kapwa.

“Friendship is truly one of life’s greatest treasures, next only to the gift of life itself. Even wealth without friends feels empty when compared to the joy of good friendship. Friendship strengthens communities and transforms ordinary connections into lasting happiness. Without it, life becomes incomplete and burdensome. This is not merely because we are social beings, but because friendship is a vital bond rooted in freedom, generosity, and goodwill. Friendship is more than duty or utility.” Bahagi ng pahayag ni Archbishop Brown.

Binigyang-diin din nito ang turo ni San Agustin na ang tunay na kaibigan ay nananatiling tapat sa anumang kalagayan ng buhay.

Ayon kay Archbishop Brown, ang pagkakaibigan ay higit pang nagiging ganap sa pananampalatayang Kristiyano sapagkat ito ay nagiging pakikipagkaisa kay Kristo na humahamon sa mga mananampalataya na sama-samang maglingkod, ipagtanggol ang pananampalataya, at pangalagaan ang pagkakaisa ng Simbahan.

“In our mission as Christians, friendship means communion in Christ. Together we strive for the faith, resist false teachings, and guard against discord,” Dagdag pa ni Archbishop Brown.

Ipinaalala rin ng kinatawan ng Santo Papa na ang sukdulang larawan ng pagkakaibigan ay ipinakita mismo ni Hesus sa pamamagitan ng Kanyang pag-aalay ng buhay para sa Kanyang mga kaibigan.

Kasabay nito ay binati ni Archbishop Brown si Manila Archbishop Jose Cardinal Advincula, ang mga obispo, pari, mga nakatalaga sa buhay-relihiyoso, layko, at lalo na ang mga kabataang kalahok sa kumperensya, at hinikayat ang lahat na patuloy na isabuhay ang diwa ng pagkakaibigang nagmumula kay Kristo bilang daan sa masiglang misyon ng ebanghelisasyon.

Isinagawa ang 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE XII) noong Hulyo 24 hanggang 26, 2026 sa University of Santo Tomas sa Maynila na may temang “Sangkay: I Have Called You Friends” (Jn. 15:15), na naglalayong palalimin ang pakikipagkaibigan kay Hesus at paigtingin ang pakikibahagi ng bawat mananampalataya sa misyon ng Simbahan.

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