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Photo by Mr. Marc Angelo Nicolas Carpio, Christmas 2020.

A blessed Merry Christmas to you all!

Please, continue greeting one another with a “Merry Christmas” than with “Happy New Year” because Christmas is not over yet; besides, we Catholics celebrated our new year last November 29, the first Sunday of Advent. Most of all, it is so unfair to Jesus that we easily forget Him and think more of the new year! What happened to those Christmas countdowns that began in September only to stop greeting “Merry Christmas” after eight days?

Most of all, contrary to what most priests are erroneously saying today, our Mass is not for the new year but for the Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God. Although the sacramentary (our book for the celebration of Mass) has prayers for the Mass on new year, it also says – written in red ink to stress this point – that one cannot celebrate the Mass for new year on January first because the proper celebration on this date is the Motherhood of Mary.

The “Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God” used to be celebrated on October 11 but during the Second Vatican Council, the Fathers deemed it more right and proper to celebrate every January first which is the eighth day called octave of Christmas. This solemnity also abolished the feasts of the Circumcision of Our Lord (January 1) and the Holy Name of Jesus (Sunday between January 1 and 8, or January 2).



Nonetheless, as a further background to our liturgy, today’s celebration is also the oldest feast in honor of Mary, dating back to year 431 after the Council of Ephesus when the Church declared Mary as the Mother of God following heresies claiming Jesus was not born divine but only human, that he assumed his divinity later in life as he matured. It was during that Council of Ephesus when the Church Fathers insisted that when Mary conceived Jesus in her womb, His divinity was not diminished nor lost. Hence, Mary shall be called the Mother of God Jesus Christ who is true God and true human, the Second Person of the Holy Trinity.

While the whole world is celebrating in revelry with all the pagan practices of fireworks and noise that sadly include many Christians, we Catholics on this first day of the new year celebrate Mary the Mother of God as our model disciple in journeying through life this 2021 in Jesus Christ.

Photo by author, Mary in our Nativity scene, 25 December 2020.

Beginning anew in Jesus like Mary

It has been more than 24 hours since my iPhone “crashed” that I now merely rely on Messenger for communications. But, it is a wonderful feeling too! Nothing bothering me so I can rest fully today.

Yes, I am a “dinosaur” when it comes to these tech things and gadgets. When I got this phone in 2018, I never bothered to check its “storage capacity”, thinking since it is a high-end phone, it must be very, very good.

Then came the pandemic last year when I had to use it for our daily online Mass until it showed signs of problems two weeks ago when I found out we have used all its 32 GB capacity.

But, as I learned all those things about storage capacity of cellphones and computers, I remembered the Blessed Virgin Mary in our gospel today.

The shepherds went in haste to Bethlehem and found Mary and Joseph, and the infant lying in the manger. When they saw this, they made known the message that had been told them about this child. All who heard it were amazed by what had been told them by the shepherds. And Mary kept all these things, reflecting on them in her heart.

Luke 2:16-19

How beautiful to hear those words of the evangelist, “Mary kept all these things, reflecting on them in her heart.”

Yes, better than any cellphone and computer is the human heart with unlimited storage capacities for all memories, data and images of life! How sad we have been keeping all those wonderful events in our lives inside this tiny gadgets that eventually would be corrupted by bugs or even hacked.

But we have this heart – the core of our very being where we process all those memories and images of everything we are going through and have gone through.

We celebrate today this Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God to remind us in keeping the Christmas story alive through the new year by imitating the Blessed Mother in treasuring and reflecting all our experiences – good and bad – in 2020!

Imagine that image of Jesus born in a manger: it must be so dark, even filthy and smelly – maybe like how our lives have been last year. But, do not forget, there was Jesus present with us in the darkness and dirt and foul smell of 2020.

If life has been so good and kind to you last year, reflect on those memories, find Jesus in those joy like the shepherds and share the good news and blessings you have received!

I love that part Mary “treasured” – as something precious – all those things said by the shepherds, reflecting them in her heart. Luke would always present Mary keeping everything in her heart to reflect them especially when things and events were beyond her understanding.

Photo by author, Mary at the foot of the Cross.

The same is true with life. Sometimes, we just cannot comprehend the many things that have happened in 2020.

Instead of blaming the year 2020 for all the negative things that have have happened, Mary shows us the way by looking into our selves, into our hearts to “process” all those experiences, find their meaning, and most of all, what God is trying to tell us. That is Christmas – Jesus became human like us to be with us specially in our sufferings and trials in life. Problem is, we are so filled with ourselves as our cellphones and other gadgets would show – selfies and so many posts most often done for the sake of “likes” and “followers”.

Do we still have memories? Do we still remember? Or, should the question be, do we still feel at all?

Whenever I see people with arms stretched looking through their cellphones in so many events, I pity them because they fail to feel and savor the moment, living in a “mediated” world, not grounded and detached from the realities of life. This is perhaps the reason why despite the affluence of life today, more people are lost, alone, alienated, and empty.

There are two local commercials that I have always loved and they both featured grandparents having Alzheimer’s.

First is McDonald’s about ten or 15 years ago of a lolo slicing into half his cheeseburger, saying, “ito para sa paborito kong apo, si Karen” (this is for my favorite grandchild, Karen).

Second is the Ayala Malls’ “Wishing Tree” in 2019 where the grandmother, so sad and haggard looking suddenly smiled again with her face lighting up in joy when she saw the old CCTV footages of her trips to the Mall with her apo in the past.

Both commercials show how big is the storage capacity of our hearts to keep our beautiful memories with loved ones even if the memories in our brain “crash”.

How amazing that the heart remains intact with its stored memories of events and persons who have loved us – and even hurt us. That is how big is our heart as a storage of memories that must be treasured, processed, and reflected upon like what Mary did to deepen our faith, widen our perspectives and most of all, find Jesus Christ.

See my dear Reader how at the end of the gospel on the eighth day Mary’s child was given with the name “Jesus” – the only thing she and Joseph were certain of about their child. The same is so true with us on this day as we begin 2021: we do not know what will happen to us. Nothing is really so certain, not even having that COVID-19 vaccine, legally speaking.

Like Mary and Joseph, all we have for sure is Jesus, the only One we must trust and follow, the only One we must nurture and share so that His face may shine upon us (Num.6:25) and lead us to eternal life as heirs to the kingdom of heaven as children of the Father (Gal.4:7).

Have a blessed Merry Christmas this new year, and may the Lord bless you and keep you! Amen.

Photo by Mr. Marc Angelo Nicolas Carpio, 25 December 2020.

Pagkakaibigan, pinakamabisang daan ng bokasyon-Cardinal Tagle

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Iginiit ni Cardinal Luis Antonio Tagle, Pro-prefect ng Dicastery for Evangelization, na ang pagkakaibigan ang isa sa pinakamabisang daan ng bokasyon, sapagkat sa pamamagitan ng mga tunay na ugnayan nagiging buhay at konkretong karanasan ang pagkilala kay Hesus at ang pagtugon sa tawag ng Diyos.

Tinalakay ito ni Cardinal Tagle sa isinagawang Heart to Heart Talk sa unang araw ng 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE XII) 2026 sa University of Santo Tomas Quadricentennial Pavilion, kung saan ibinahagi nina Sr. Mary Joannie Bolisay ng Sisters of Saint Paul of Chartres (SPC) at Fr. Dean Jerome Cruz ng Diocese of Cabanatuan ang mga pagkakaibigang naging bahagi ng kanilang paglalakbay tungo sa buhay relihiyoso at pagpapari.

Binigyang-diin ni Cardinal Tagle na bagama’t mahalaga ang mga vocation promotion materials tulad ng posters, videos, short stories at seminars, mas nagiging makapangyarihan ang personal na ugnayan at buhay na patotoo ng mga taong nagpapakita ng kasiyahan sa paglilingkod sa Diyos.

“While we appreciate the use of film, mga short stories na nakikita natin sa TV, yung mga posters announcing a diocese, a seminary, a religious order, they’re all good for giving information. But we should not discount the role of friendship in making the face of Jesus, the face of the Church, real to people,” pahayag ni Cardinal Tagle.

Ibinahagi ni Sr. Bolisay na ang kanyang pagtugon sa bokasyon ay unti-unting nahubog sa pakikipagkaibigan niya sa mga seminarista ng Maria Asunta Seminary noong siya ay youth coordinator ng Diocese of Cabanatuan.

Ayon sa madre, ang masayang samahan at dedikasyon ng mga seminarista sa paglilingkod ang naging inspirasyon upang makita niya ang kagandahan ng buhay relihiyoso.

“Iyong joyful disposition ng mga seminarians, ‘yun po ‘yung isa sa mga nakahikayat sa akin na pwede naman palang subukan. At sila din po ‘yung nagpakilala sa akin ng congregation kung saan po ako papasok,” ayon kay Sr. Bolisay.

Samantala, ibinahagi naman ni Fr. Cruz na ang kanyang bokasyon bilang pari ay nagsimula rin sa pag-anyaya at paggabay ng mga kaibigang altar server at youth ministers noong siya ay nasa high school.

Binigyang-diin ng pari na mahalaga ang pagkakaroon ng mabubuting kaibigan maging sa patuloy na buhay-paglilingkod, lalo na sa panahon ng mga pagsubok at panghihina ng loob sa ministeryo.

“Truth and charity, magkakambal po ‘yan para sa growing relationship. You have to be truthful and of course you have to be charitable in expressing the truth para po balanse. Kasi kapag truth lang po, baka po masaktan kung walang charity. Pero kung charity lang, baka puro compromise naman po at wala pong truth. Baka po fake friendship na po ‘yun,” saad ni Fr. Cruz.

Sa pagtatapos ng talakayan, hinikayat ni Cardinal Tagle ang mga mananampalataya na huwag matakot makipagkaibigan at maging saksi ng pag-ibig ni Kristo, dahil ang mga ugnayang binubuo ngayon ay maaaring maging binhi ng mga bokasyon sa hinaharap.

“The seeds of friendship that you sow now will be the harvest of vocation in the future,” ayon kay Cardinal Tagle.

Tema ng PCNE XII ang “Sangkay: I have called you Friends (John 15:15),” na naglalayong palalimin ang diwa ng pagkakaibigan bilang daan tungo sa pagbabagong-loob sa misyon at sa pagbuo ng isang higit na sinodal na Simbahang Katolika sa Pilipinas.

Pag-ibig, pundasyon ng tunay pakikipagkaibigan

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Binigyan-diin ng Prior Provincial ng Dominican Province of the Philippines Father Filemon Dela Cruz Jr., O.P – , ang ‘pag-ibig’ bilang pundasyon ng tunay na pakikipagkaibigan at matatag na ugnayan ng bawat mananampalataya sa kaniyang mensahe para sa 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE) sa University of Santo Tomas.

Ito ay sa kaniyang pagninilay sa session ng “Confessio Peccati et Laudis: Healing and Nurturing Relationships,” na nakatuon sa pagpapanumbalik at pagpapatibay ng mga ugnayan.

Ayon kay Fr. dela Cruz, ang tunay na pagkakaibigan ay nakaugat sa pag-ibig na nag-uudyok sa tao na pahalagahan, ingatan, at alagaan ang kapwa.

Iginiit niyang ang pagmamahal ay hindi lamang damdamin kundi isang desisyon na kilalanin ang dignidad at kahalagahan ng bawat tao, na siyang nagpapatatag sa mga ugnayang humuhubog sa pamayanan ng pananampalataya.

“Friendship is friendship in love, kaya kapag ika’y nagmahal, iingatan mo ang halaga ng isang tao pinapahalagahan mo ang taong yan, kaya mahal kita l, mahalaga ka sakin,” ayon sa pagninilay ni Fr.Dela Cruz

Binigyang-diin din ng pari na ang pagpapahalaga sa kapwa ay nagiging daan upang mapagaling ang mga nasirang relasyon at makabuo ng mga pamayanang nagkakaisa sa diwa ng pakikinig, pag-unawa, at pagmamalasakit. dahil ang tunay na pagkakaibigan ay naipapakita sa konkretong pag-aaruga at patuloy na pag-akay sa isa’t isa tungo sa pag-ibig ni Kristo.

Kaugnay nito, umaasa si Fr. dela Cruz na magsisilbing inspirasyon ang PCNE 2026 upang higit pang mapalalim ang kultura ng pagkakaibigan at pagmamahalan sa loob ng Simbahan, kasabay ng paghahanda ng mga mananampalataya para sa Evangelization 2033, sa pamamagitan ng paghubog ng mga disipulong handang magmahal, maglingkod, at maghatid ng pag-asa sa kapwa.

Pagkakaibigan, mahalagang pundasyon ng sama-samang misyon sa pagpapalaganap ng ebanghelyo- Papal Nuncio sa mananampalataya

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Binigyang-diin ni Apostolic Nuncio to the Philippines Archbishop Charles John Brown na ang tunay na pagkakaibigan na nakaugat kay Hesukristo ang mahalagang pundasyon ng sama-samang misyon ng Simbahan sa pagpapalaganap ng Ebanghelyo.

Sa kanyang mensahe para sa 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE XII), sinabi ng kinatawan ng Santo Papa sa Pilipinas na ang pagkakaibigan ay isa sa pinakadakilang kaloob ng Diyos sa tao, kasunod lamang ng mismong buhay, sapagkat ito ang nagpapatatag sa mga pamayanan at nagbibigay ng tunay na kagalakan at pag-asa.

Ipinaliwanag din ni Archbishop Brown na ang tunay na pagkakaibigan ay hindi nakabatay sa pakinabang o pansariling interes kundi sa kalayaan, kabutihang-loob, at tapat na pagmamahal sa kapwa.

“Friendship is truly one of life’s greatest treasures, next only to the gift of life itself. Even wealth without friends feels empty when compared to the joy of good friendship. Friendship strengthens communities and transforms ordinary connections into lasting happiness. Without it, life becomes incomplete and burdensome. This is not merely because we are social beings, but because friendship is a vital bond rooted in freedom, generosity, and goodwill. Friendship is more than duty or utility.” Bahagi ng pahayag ni Archbishop Brown.

Binigyang-diin din nito ang turo ni San Agustin na ang tunay na kaibigan ay nananatiling tapat sa anumang kalagayan ng buhay.

Ayon kay Archbishop Brown, ang pagkakaibigan ay higit pang nagiging ganap sa pananampalatayang Kristiyano sapagkat ito ay nagiging pakikipagkaisa kay Kristo na humahamon sa mga mananampalataya na sama-samang maglingkod, ipagtanggol ang pananampalataya, at pangalagaan ang pagkakaisa ng Simbahan.

“In our mission as Christians, friendship means communion in Christ. Together we strive for the faith, resist false teachings, and guard against discord,” Dagdag pa ni Archbishop Brown.

Ipinaalala rin ng kinatawan ng Santo Papa na ang sukdulang larawan ng pagkakaibigan ay ipinakita mismo ni Hesus sa pamamagitan ng Kanyang pag-aalay ng buhay para sa Kanyang mga kaibigan.

Kasabay nito ay binati ni Archbishop Brown si Manila Archbishop Jose Cardinal Advincula, ang mga obispo, pari, mga nakatalaga sa buhay-relihiyoso, layko, at lalo na ang mga kabataang kalahok sa kumperensya, at hinikayat ang lahat na patuloy na isabuhay ang diwa ng pagkakaibigang nagmumula kay Kristo bilang daan sa masiglang misyon ng ebanghelisasyon.

Isinagawa ang 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE XII) noong Hulyo 24 hanggang 26, 2026 sa University of Santo Tomas sa Maynila na may temang “Sangkay: I Have Called You Friends” (Jn. 15:15), na naglalayong palalimin ang pakikipagkaibigan kay Hesus at paigtingin ang pakikibahagi ng bawat mananampalataya sa misyon ng Simbahan.

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