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Today we spend an extra Sunday for the Christmas Season’s Feast of Sto. Niño granted by Rome to the local Church in recognition of the important role played by that image of the Holy Child gifted by Magellan to Queen Juana of Cebu in 1521.

Its role in the Christianization of the country cannot be denied, considering the historical fact that when Miguel Lopez de Legazpi arrived in Cebu 44 years later after Magellan to claim the country for Spain, they were surprised to discover how the natives venerated the Sto. Niño inside a special hut for worship along with their other anitos.

Legazpi’s chaplain Fray Luis Andres de Urdaneta attested to how that devotion to the Sto. Niño in Cebu enabled them to Christianize other natives without difficulties as the Holy Child image at that time has become the favorite among the people in asking favors like children and bountiful harvests as well as protection from calamities and wars.

The late National Artist Nick Joaquin was absolutely right to claim in his many writings and talks that it was really the Sto. Niño who truly conquered the Philippines that continues to be the most popular Christ-devotion in the country along with the Nuestro Padre Jesus de Nazareno of Quiapo.

More powerful than the swords and cannons or any force in the world indeed is the Child Jesus who has continued to be a paradox in world history: the Son of God born in a lowly stable in a small town called Bethlehem because there was no room for them in the inn during the time of the powerful Caesar claiming to be the king of the whole world by ordering a census of all his subjects in the vast Roman Empire now totally forgotten, his kingdom long gone.

What an irony the God who came so weak like all of us, without any title to His name nor an army at His command still influencing the world in His weakness and silence, in His childlikeness. A reality in life until now we have refused to accept even in the Church.

People were bringing children to Jesus that he might touch them, but the disciples rebuked them. When Jesus saw this, he became indignant and said to them, “Let the children come to me; do not prevent them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Amen, I say to you, whoever does not accept the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it.” Then Jesus embraced them and blessed them, placing his hands on them.

Mark 10:13-16

A child praying in our Parish, 07 November 2019; photo by Mr. Red Santiago.

Christ’s path of weakness vs. the world’s path of power

It is so timely that during this Ordinary Time we have this Feast of the Sto. Niño to remind us of the central teaching of Jesus Christ to be childlike that gets lost in the novelty and sentimentality of our Christmas celebrations.

See how this call for us to be childlike becomes more difficult even almost impossible to achieve in our world that has become so technical and “sophisticated” as we seek to shape and manipulate everything according to our own design.

The world of men, of macho men we love to relish with delight in the secular and religious world in all of its trappings of fads and fashion and “hard talks”, of external showmanships that we try so hard to project cannot hide the hypocrisies within, of keeping grips and control on everyone and everything like the disciples of Jesus. The tragedy of that scene continuing to happen in our time is how some few people who live in darkness pretend to be seeing the light that in the process are actually misleading people towards darkness and destruction.



Every time we refuse to allow others to come forward with their new thoughts and new ideas, fresh perspectives in governance and management, in the ministry, in theology, when we close our minds to hear others ideas and opinions in doing things, then we are into serious power plays that can be pernicious at the same time.

When this happens, we are all the more challenged to be child-like before God in taking all the risks in exposing what is true, what is real like those kids shouting “the emperor has no clothes”!

To be a child means to owe one’s existence to another which we never outgrow even in our adult life. It is an attitude of being open, that Jesus can be talking to us through people not necessarily like us, even different from us. It is an attitude of trusting others, unlike those hungry for power who only believe in themselves, so afraid they might be proven wrong because their minds are either narrow or closed.

Are we not surprised at all that these control freaks around us who try so hard to project images of power and strength are often the perverts and deviants hiding their childishness and immaturities and other skeletons in the closet?

Photo by author, “Sleeping Sto. Niño”, January 2020.

Becoming and living as God’s children

Jesus shows us today in this feast of the Sto. Niño that it is in the path of being weak like children when we are truly free like Him – free to be a child of God indeed! This He accomplished by dying on the Cross not only to forgive us for our sins but made us a “new man/woman” in God as His children.

Brothers and sisters: Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in then heavens, as he chose us in him, before the foundations of the world, to be holy and without blemish before him. In love he destined us for adoption to himself through Jesus Christ, in accord with the favor of his will, for the praise of the glory of his grace that he granted us in the beloved.

Ephesians 1:3-6

How sad that in our efforts to be in the man’s world of power and dominance, we try so hard becoming somebody else whom we are not only to end up alone, lost and unfulfilled.

Our being children of God is something innate in us, already within us that was accomplished by Christ for us at the Cross.

The key is to always go back to Jesus at the Cross.

We have said earlier that to be a child is to owe one’s existence to another that is, ultimately speaking, to God alone.

Hence, one sure sign of being like a child is having the sense of gratitude, of thanksgiving.

Incidentally, the Greek word for thanksgiving is eucharistia or eucharist! In the gospel accounts, we find so many instances of Jesus thanking the Father for everything that beautifully reminds us of His childlikeness.

The moment we feel strong enough without need for others, then we stop being grateful, then we lose that childlikeness in us as we start tinkering with power and influence, assuming to ourselves that everybody owes us, the world needs us.



That is when we stop growing and sooner or later, we collapse and eventually fall so hard on our faces.

How amazing that the Sto. Niño image given by Magellan to Queen Juana holds an orb or a globe. It is very interesting where did the maker of that image got that idea that the world is round when in fact it was the theory that Magellan had in mind in setting out to his ambitious expedition by sailing westward and returning from the east?

Records show that the first images of the Child Jesus or Sto. Niño as we know came from Flanders, a region in the Netherlands. The Flemish people have been making those images as early as the late 1400’s. That is why there is also that popular image of the the Child Jesus in Prague in the Czech Republic.

The mystery remains where did they get that idea of the Child Jesus holding an orb?

Could it be that the Flemish people who were devoutly Catholics at that time must have found the “light” from Jesus Christ in their devotions and prayers as prophesied by Isaiah in the first reading?

Nobody knows for sure but the next time you look at a Sto. Niño, be reminded always that it is the Child Jesus who holds the world in His hands. If you want to have the world in your hand too, be child-like! Be always grateful for who you are and what you have. Jesus promised it anyway.

Blessed week ahead of you!

Pagkakaibigan, pinakamabisang daan ng bokasyon-Cardinal Tagle

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Iginiit ni Cardinal Luis Antonio Tagle, Pro-prefect ng Dicastery for Evangelization, na ang pagkakaibigan ang isa sa pinakamabisang daan ng bokasyon, sapagkat sa pamamagitan ng mga tunay na ugnayan nagiging buhay at konkretong karanasan ang pagkilala kay Hesus at ang pagtugon sa tawag ng Diyos.

Tinalakay ito ni Cardinal Tagle sa isinagawang Heart to Heart Talk sa unang araw ng 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE XII) 2026 sa University of Santo Tomas Quadricentennial Pavilion, kung saan ibinahagi nina Sr. Mary Joannie Bolisay ng Sisters of Saint Paul of Chartres (SPC) at Fr. Dean Jerome Cruz ng Diocese of Cabanatuan ang mga pagkakaibigang naging bahagi ng kanilang paglalakbay tungo sa buhay relihiyoso at pagpapari.

Binigyang-diin ni Cardinal Tagle na bagama’t mahalaga ang mga vocation promotion materials tulad ng posters, videos, short stories at seminars, mas nagiging makapangyarihan ang personal na ugnayan at buhay na patotoo ng mga taong nagpapakita ng kasiyahan sa paglilingkod sa Diyos.

“While we appreciate the use of film, mga short stories na nakikita natin sa TV, yung mga posters announcing a diocese, a seminary, a religious order, they’re all good for giving information. But we should not discount the role of friendship in making the face of Jesus, the face of the Church, real to people,” pahayag ni Cardinal Tagle.

Ibinahagi ni Sr. Bolisay na ang kanyang pagtugon sa bokasyon ay unti-unting nahubog sa pakikipagkaibigan niya sa mga seminarista ng Maria Asunta Seminary noong siya ay youth coordinator ng Diocese of Cabanatuan.

Ayon sa madre, ang masayang samahan at dedikasyon ng mga seminarista sa paglilingkod ang naging inspirasyon upang makita niya ang kagandahan ng buhay relihiyoso.

“Iyong joyful disposition ng mga seminarians, ‘yun po ‘yung isa sa mga nakahikayat sa akin na pwede naman palang subukan. At sila din po ‘yung nagpakilala sa akin ng congregation kung saan po ako papasok,” ayon kay Sr. Bolisay.

Samantala, ibinahagi naman ni Fr. Cruz na ang kanyang bokasyon bilang pari ay nagsimula rin sa pag-anyaya at paggabay ng mga kaibigang altar server at youth ministers noong siya ay nasa high school.

Binigyang-diin ng pari na mahalaga ang pagkakaroon ng mabubuting kaibigan maging sa patuloy na buhay-paglilingkod, lalo na sa panahon ng mga pagsubok at panghihina ng loob sa ministeryo.

“Truth and charity, magkakambal po ‘yan para sa growing relationship. You have to be truthful and of course you have to be charitable in expressing the truth para po balanse. Kasi kapag truth lang po, baka po masaktan kung walang charity. Pero kung charity lang, baka puro compromise naman po at wala pong truth. Baka po fake friendship na po ‘yun,” saad ni Fr. Cruz.

Sa pagtatapos ng talakayan, hinikayat ni Cardinal Tagle ang mga mananampalataya na huwag matakot makipagkaibigan at maging saksi ng pag-ibig ni Kristo, dahil ang mga ugnayang binubuo ngayon ay maaaring maging binhi ng mga bokasyon sa hinaharap.

“The seeds of friendship that you sow now will be the harvest of vocation in the future,” ayon kay Cardinal Tagle.

Tema ng PCNE XII ang “Sangkay: I have called you Friends (John 15:15),” na naglalayong palalimin ang diwa ng pagkakaibigan bilang daan tungo sa pagbabagong-loob sa misyon at sa pagbuo ng isang higit na sinodal na Simbahang Katolika sa Pilipinas.

Pag-ibig, pundasyon ng tunay pakikipagkaibigan

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Binigyan-diin ng Prior Provincial ng Dominican Province of the Philippines Father Filemon Dela Cruz Jr., O.P – , ang ‘pag-ibig’ bilang pundasyon ng tunay na pakikipagkaibigan at matatag na ugnayan ng bawat mananampalataya sa kaniyang mensahe para sa 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE) sa University of Santo Tomas.

Ito ay sa kaniyang pagninilay sa session ng “Confessio Peccati et Laudis: Healing and Nurturing Relationships,” na nakatuon sa pagpapanumbalik at pagpapatibay ng mga ugnayan.

Ayon kay Fr. dela Cruz, ang tunay na pagkakaibigan ay nakaugat sa pag-ibig na nag-uudyok sa tao na pahalagahan, ingatan, at alagaan ang kapwa.

Iginiit niyang ang pagmamahal ay hindi lamang damdamin kundi isang desisyon na kilalanin ang dignidad at kahalagahan ng bawat tao, na siyang nagpapatatag sa mga ugnayang humuhubog sa pamayanan ng pananampalataya.

“Friendship is friendship in love, kaya kapag ika’y nagmahal, iingatan mo ang halaga ng isang tao pinapahalagahan mo ang taong yan, kaya mahal kita l, mahalaga ka sakin,” ayon sa pagninilay ni Fr.Dela Cruz

Binigyang-diin din ng pari na ang pagpapahalaga sa kapwa ay nagiging daan upang mapagaling ang mga nasirang relasyon at makabuo ng mga pamayanang nagkakaisa sa diwa ng pakikinig, pag-unawa, at pagmamalasakit. dahil ang tunay na pagkakaibigan ay naipapakita sa konkretong pag-aaruga at patuloy na pag-akay sa isa’t isa tungo sa pag-ibig ni Kristo.

Kaugnay nito, umaasa si Fr. dela Cruz na magsisilbing inspirasyon ang PCNE 2026 upang higit pang mapalalim ang kultura ng pagkakaibigan at pagmamahalan sa loob ng Simbahan, kasabay ng paghahanda ng mga mananampalataya para sa Evangelization 2033, sa pamamagitan ng paghubog ng mga disipulong handang magmahal, maglingkod, at maghatid ng pag-asa sa kapwa.

Pagkakaibigan, mahalagang pundasyon ng sama-samang misyon sa pagpapalaganap ng ebanghelyo- Papal Nuncio sa mananampalataya

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Binigyang-diin ni Apostolic Nuncio to the Philippines Archbishop Charles John Brown na ang tunay na pagkakaibigan na nakaugat kay Hesukristo ang mahalagang pundasyon ng sama-samang misyon ng Simbahan sa pagpapalaganap ng Ebanghelyo.

Sa kanyang mensahe para sa 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE XII), sinabi ng kinatawan ng Santo Papa sa Pilipinas na ang pagkakaibigan ay isa sa pinakadakilang kaloob ng Diyos sa tao, kasunod lamang ng mismong buhay, sapagkat ito ang nagpapatatag sa mga pamayanan at nagbibigay ng tunay na kagalakan at pag-asa.

Ipinaliwanag din ni Archbishop Brown na ang tunay na pagkakaibigan ay hindi nakabatay sa pakinabang o pansariling interes kundi sa kalayaan, kabutihang-loob, at tapat na pagmamahal sa kapwa.

“Friendship is truly one of life’s greatest treasures, next only to the gift of life itself. Even wealth without friends feels empty when compared to the joy of good friendship. Friendship strengthens communities and transforms ordinary connections into lasting happiness. Without it, life becomes incomplete and burdensome. This is not merely because we are social beings, but because friendship is a vital bond rooted in freedom, generosity, and goodwill. Friendship is more than duty or utility.” Bahagi ng pahayag ni Archbishop Brown.

Binigyang-diin din nito ang turo ni San Agustin na ang tunay na kaibigan ay nananatiling tapat sa anumang kalagayan ng buhay.

Ayon kay Archbishop Brown, ang pagkakaibigan ay higit pang nagiging ganap sa pananampalatayang Kristiyano sapagkat ito ay nagiging pakikipagkaisa kay Kristo na humahamon sa mga mananampalataya na sama-samang maglingkod, ipagtanggol ang pananampalataya, at pangalagaan ang pagkakaisa ng Simbahan.

“In our mission as Christians, friendship means communion in Christ. Together we strive for the faith, resist false teachings, and guard against discord,” Dagdag pa ni Archbishop Brown.

Ipinaalala rin ng kinatawan ng Santo Papa na ang sukdulang larawan ng pagkakaibigan ay ipinakita mismo ni Hesus sa pamamagitan ng Kanyang pag-aalay ng buhay para sa Kanyang mga kaibigan.

Kasabay nito ay binati ni Archbishop Brown si Manila Archbishop Jose Cardinal Advincula, ang mga obispo, pari, mga nakatalaga sa buhay-relihiyoso, layko, at lalo na ang mga kabataang kalahok sa kumperensya, at hinikayat ang lahat na patuloy na isabuhay ang diwa ng pagkakaibigang nagmumula kay Kristo bilang daan sa masiglang misyon ng ebanghelisasyon.

Isinagawa ang 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE XII) noong Hulyo 24 hanggang 26, 2026 sa University of Santo Tomas sa Maynila na may temang “Sangkay: I Have Called You Friends” (Jn. 15:15), na naglalayong palalimin ang pakikipagkaibigan kay Hesus at paigtingin ang pakikibahagi ng bawat mananampalataya sa misyon ng Simbahan.

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