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It was a road trip that took us three years of planning. Though it just covered a little more than a hundred kilometers east of Metro Manila done in 12 hours, it was a road trip beyond maps and GPS as it turned out into some sort of a personal journey within.

Sometimes in life, the most wonderful trips are those made at the spur of the moment – “biglaan, nagkaayaan lang” – when an Invisible Hand guides us, sometimes purposely allowing us to get lost along the way with many detours leading to so many discoveries.



That exactly happened with this road trip with my kinakapatid Dindo (Fernando Alberto, Jr.) last January 07, 2021. It was his idea that we go on a road trip so we can share more of our many common interests like Steely Dan music, singing like crazy Kid Charlemagne’s“Is there gas in the car?” that has become like a password in our conversations as well as in our chats.

And so, two weeks ago with a tankful of “gas in the car”, I left my parish in Bulacan at 5AM and headed south to pick up Dindo almost exactly an hour later reaching the Church of Baras via Sumulong Highway in Antipolo a little past 7AM.


"Reeling in the Years":
the charm and beauty of Baras Church

If you are looking for a good, old church near Metro Manila that has remained faithful to its past, then go to this Church of Baras town that has retained its quaint Spanish period Baroque architecture.

Set on top of a hill still surrounded by forests, its simple facade is “so cool” and very comforting at first sight that gives every pilgrim a sense of serenity and silence, so welcoming especially to those tired and confused in life.

What struck me first were the beautiful patches of mosses and fronds growing right on the steps all the way up to the bell tower made of adobe bricks exposed without plasters. I have always been amazed with mosses and fronds because they remind me of how life continues to thrive even in the most difficult and harsh situations while their luminous green color look like natural carpets ready to absorb whatever shocks and weight you may be carrying.

From afar, the Baras church looks like an oasis tucked in a lovely corner not far from the busy highway outside. Everything is green and so refreshing. Just looking at this church from the patio dotted with yellow spots for social distancing during Masses, one may already conclude upon arrival that it was worth the trip.

Even after we have missed its main entrance after the small bridge in the poblacion, our peg remained chillax after being welcomed by its sacristan mayor named Alvin who right away opened the main door for us so we can pray inside. And, voila!

Inside the Baras Church. Its pastors have done a great job in keeping the church intact all these years unlike other old churches that have fallen prey to disrespect of its heritage and roots.

Upon entering, one’s sights are directed upwards to its exposed wooden trusses supporting the roof. It has no ceiling like most old churches in Ilocos, exuding with that sense of freedom and openness as if the heavens were rent apart by God to assure that He listens to every prayer said by anyone who comes to this church.

One thing I appreciate in this church as a priest is the prevalence of that sense of coherence, of wholeness from which the word holiness came from. So unlike many churches these days that have become more like a hodge-podge of so many things and colors that distract you away from God.

Baras church is a rarity where that old maxim in liturgy is still kept so many priests ignore: noble simplicity. Nothing kitschy or baduy like tarpaulins and what-have-you that inhibit silent meditation and contemplation with enough room for God and His saints. And you.

The adobe bricks without plasters give you an impression of a relaxed life, safely and securely ensconced inside to rest in the Lord, literally and figuratively speaking. Nothing artificial, so natural is the feeling inside without the ubiquitous giant ceiling fans and flatscreen TV’s. Touch the walls and you can still feel the whispered prayers of the faithful long dead still reverberating!

Sauntering to the sanctuary to pray while feasting my eyes with the ancient wood carvings at the side walls, it was only then when I realized how blessed is this road trip, so timely to have happened that day, not earlier or even later.


"We find that after years of struggle 
we do not take a trip;
a trip takes us." 
-John Steinbeck

Lo and behold! When Alvin turned on the lights of the retablo, I felt so blessed when I recognized St. Joseph is the Patron of this church, the husband of Mary and foster father of Jesus Christ, my personal patron saint since seminary days!

What a tremendous blessing indeed that our first stop in this road trip is a parish dedicated to St. Joseph on the first month of the Year of St. Joseph as declared by Pope Francis last December 8, 2020 to commemorate the 150th anniversary of the declaration of St. Joseph as Patron of the Universal Church.

Most of all, it was a time in my life I was feeling so afraid, even scared and bothered almost like St. Joseph after finding out Mary was pregnant with a child not his that he decided to silently divorce her until an angel appeared in his dream, explaining everything. In my case, I have just received my new assignment as chaplain of a university and hospital in our diocese. Aside from that fearful feeling going into a new field of ministry, I was wary of the hospital setting in time of COVID-19.

But there before the altar of the Baras Church as I knelt praying, I felt the very same reassurance of God through St. Joseph, as if telling me, “Nick, do not be afraid to take that new assignment for I shall be with you always.”

After saying our prayers, I told Dindo the significance of our first Church that happened to be dedicated to St. Joseph.

And that’s when we realized how along the way we were sharing about our own beloved fathers now both gone to heaven, of their impact on us while growing up in their old-school brand of discipline and parenting that have molded us into who we are today weathering so many storms in life, never giving up, always fighting, always standing for what we firmly believe as true and good.

While there, I prayed to St. Joseph for all the fathers I know, including those priests who have blessed me and nurtured my vocation, deceased and still living. In a special way, I prayed for all dads silently crying in pain because of their great love for their children; dads never understood by their wife, always deferring for them for the sake of balance and peace at home; and, most especially, for dads who are sick after laboring for so long in raising their family.

At the left side of the nave is displayed prominently the original cross used in the church by the Jesuits who administered the parish from 1616 to 1679. Above that is a wood carving of Santiago de Compostela or St. James the Great, patron of Spain and elder brother of St. John the Beloved, the patron of my parish for nine years and seven months. The parish of Baras was originally dedicated to him. Why they changed it to St. Joseph, nobody could tell us.

But, Dindo and I at that time knew, this stop was meant for us both a father and for our own dads who are still cumpadres on a different trip in heaven. We had our light breakfast prepared by Dindo being a great cook himself who was part of the original Mandarin Hotel officers in Beijing three decades ago.

Join us next week at our next stop in Tanay where we met St. Joseph’s wife, Mary.

And along the way, we proved that rock and roll has always been a way of life since the time of Jesus…

Original cross venerated in the Baras Church with a relic from the true Cross of Jesus found in Jerusalem by St. Helena; above that is a woodcarving of St. James the Great, the first patron saint of Baras.

Pagkakaibigan, pinakamabisang daan ng bokasyon-Cardinal Tagle

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Iginiit ni Cardinal Luis Antonio Tagle, Pro-prefect ng Dicastery for Evangelization, na ang pagkakaibigan ang isa sa pinakamabisang daan ng bokasyon, sapagkat sa pamamagitan ng mga tunay na ugnayan nagiging buhay at konkretong karanasan ang pagkilala kay Hesus at ang pagtugon sa tawag ng Diyos.

Tinalakay ito ni Cardinal Tagle sa isinagawang Heart to Heart Talk sa unang araw ng 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE XII) 2026 sa University of Santo Tomas Quadricentennial Pavilion, kung saan ibinahagi nina Sr. Mary Joannie Bolisay ng Sisters of Saint Paul of Chartres (SPC) at Fr. Dean Jerome Cruz ng Diocese of Cabanatuan ang mga pagkakaibigang naging bahagi ng kanilang paglalakbay tungo sa buhay relihiyoso at pagpapari.

Binigyang-diin ni Cardinal Tagle na bagama’t mahalaga ang mga vocation promotion materials tulad ng posters, videos, short stories at seminars, mas nagiging makapangyarihan ang personal na ugnayan at buhay na patotoo ng mga taong nagpapakita ng kasiyahan sa paglilingkod sa Diyos.

“While we appreciate the use of film, mga short stories na nakikita natin sa TV, yung mga posters announcing a diocese, a seminary, a religious order, they’re all good for giving information. But we should not discount the role of friendship in making the face of Jesus, the face of the Church, real to people,” pahayag ni Cardinal Tagle.

Ibinahagi ni Sr. Bolisay na ang kanyang pagtugon sa bokasyon ay unti-unting nahubog sa pakikipagkaibigan niya sa mga seminarista ng Maria Asunta Seminary noong siya ay youth coordinator ng Diocese of Cabanatuan.

Ayon sa madre, ang masayang samahan at dedikasyon ng mga seminarista sa paglilingkod ang naging inspirasyon upang makita niya ang kagandahan ng buhay relihiyoso.

“Iyong joyful disposition ng mga seminarians, ‘yun po ‘yung isa sa mga nakahikayat sa akin na pwede naman palang subukan. At sila din po ‘yung nagpakilala sa akin ng congregation kung saan po ako papasok,” ayon kay Sr. Bolisay.

Samantala, ibinahagi naman ni Fr. Cruz na ang kanyang bokasyon bilang pari ay nagsimula rin sa pag-anyaya at paggabay ng mga kaibigang altar server at youth ministers noong siya ay nasa high school.

Binigyang-diin ng pari na mahalaga ang pagkakaroon ng mabubuting kaibigan maging sa patuloy na buhay-paglilingkod, lalo na sa panahon ng mga pagsubok at panghihina ng loob sa ministeryo.

“Truth and charity, magkakambal po ‘yan para sa growing relationship. You have to be truthful and of course you have to be charitable in expressing the truth para po balanse. Kasi kapag truth lang po, baka po masaktan kung walang charity. Pero kung charity lang, baka puro compromise naman po at wala pong truth. Baka po fake friendship na po ‘yun,” saad ni Fr. Cruz.

Sa pagtatapos ng talakayan, hinikayat ni Cardinal Tagle ang mga mananampalataya na huwag matakot makipagkaibigan at maging saksi ng pag-ibig ni Kristo, dahil ang mga ugnayang binubuo ngayon ay maaaring maging binhi ng mga bokasyon sa hinaharap.

“The seeds of friendship that you sow now will be the harvest of vocation in the future,” ayon kay Cardinal Tagle.

Tema ng PCNE XII ang “Sangkay: I have called you Friends (John 15:15),” na naglalayong palalimin ang diwa ng pagkakaibigan bilang daan tungo sa pagbabagong-loob sa misyon at sa pagbuo ng isang higit na sinodal na Simbahang Katolika sa Pilipinas.

Pag-ibig, pundasyon ng tunay pakikipagkaibigan

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Binigyan-diin ng Prior Provincial ng Dominican Province of the Philippines Father Filemon Dela Cruz Jr., O.P – , ang ‘pag-ibig’ bilang pundasyon ng tunay na pakikipagkaibigan at matatag na ugnayan ng bawat mananampalataya sa kaniyang mensahe para sa 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE) sa University of Santo Tomas.

Ito ay sa kaniyang pagninilay sa session ng “Confessio Peccati et Laudis: Healing and Nurturing Relationships,” na nakatuon sa pagpapanumbalik at pagpapatibay ng mga ugnayan.

Ayon kay Fr. dela Cruz, ang tunay na pagkakaibigan ay nakaugat sa pag-ibig na nag-uudyok sa tao na pahalagahan, ingatan, at alagaan ang kapwa.

Iginiit niyang ang pagmamahal ay hindi lamang damdamin kundi isang desisyon na kilalanin ang dignidad at kahalagahan ng bawat tao, na siyang nagpapatatag sa mga ugnayang humuhubog sa pamayanan ng pananampalataya.

“Friendship is friendship in love, kaya kapag ika’y nagmahal, iingatan mo ang halaga ng isang tao pinapahalagahan mo ang taong yan, kaya mahal kita l, mahalaga ka sakin,” ayon sa pagninilay ni Fr.Dela Cruz

Binigyang-diin din ng pari na ang pagpapahalaga sa kapwa ay nagiging daan upang mapagaling ang mga nasirang relasyon at makabuo ng mga pamayanang nagkakaisa sa diwa ng pakikinig, pag-unawa, at pagmamalasakit. dahil ang tunay na pagkakaibigan ay naipapakita sa konkretong pag-aaruga at patuloy na pag-akay sa isa’t isa tungo sa pag-ibig ni Kristo.

Kaugnay nito, umaasa si Fr. dela Cruz na magsisilbing inspirasyon ang PCNE 2026 upang higit pang mapalalim ang kultura ng pagkakaibigan at pagmamahalan sa loob ng Simbahan, kasabay ng paghahanda ng mga mananampalataya para sa Evangelization 2033, sa pamamagitan ng paghubog ng mga disipulong handang magmahal, maglingkod, at maghatid ng pag-asa sa kapwa.

Pagkakaibigan, mahalagang pundasyon ng sama-samang misyon sa pagpapalaganap ng ebanghelyo- Papal Nuncio sa mananampalataya

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Binigyang-diin ni Apostolic Nuncio to the Philippines Archbishop Charles John Brown na ang tunay na pagkakaibigan na nakaugat kay Hesukristo ang mahalagang pundasyon ng sama-samang misyon ng Simbahan sa pagpapalaganap ng Ebanghelyo.

Sa kanyang mensahe para sa 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE XII), sinabi ng kinatawan ng Santo Papa sa Pilipinas na ang pagkakaibigan ay isa sa pinakadakilang kaloob ng Diyos sa tao, kasunod lamang ng mismong buhay, sapagkat ito ang nagpapatatag sa mga pamayanan at nagbibigay ng tunay na kagalakan at pag-asa.

Ipinaliwanag din ni Archbishop Brown na ang tunay na pagkakaibigan ay hindi nakabatay sa pakinabang o pansariling interes kundi sa kalayaan, kabutihang-loob, at tapat na pagmamahal sa kapwa.

“Friendship is truly one of life’s greatest treasures, next only to the gift of life itself. Even wealth without friends feels empty when compared to the joy of good friendship. Friendship strengthens communities and transforms ordinary connections into lasting happiness. Without it, life becomes incomplete and burdensome. This is not merely because we are social beings, but because friendship is a vital bond rooted in freedom, generosity, and goodwill. Friendship is more than duty or utility.” Bahagi ng pahayag ni Archbishop Brown.

Binigyang-diin din nito ang turo ni San Agustin na ang tunay na kaibigan ay nananatiling tapat sa anumang kalagayan ng buhay.

Ayon kay Archbishop Brown, ang pagkakaibigan ay higit pang nagiging ganap sa pananampalatayang Kristiyano sapagkat ito ay nagiging pakikipagkaisa kay Kristo na humahamon sa mga mananampalataya na sama-samang maglingkod, ipagtanggol ang pananampalataya, at pangalagaan ang pagkakaisa ng Simbahan.

“In our mission as Christians, friendship means communion in Christ. Together we strive for the faith, resist false teachings, and guard against discord,” Dagdag pa ni Archbishop Brown.

Ipinaalala rin ng kinatawan ng Santo Papa na ang sukdulang larawan ng pagkakaibigan ay ipinakita mismo ni Hesus sa pamamagitan ng Kanyang pag-aalay ng buhay para sa Kanyang mga kaibigan.

Kasabay nito ay binati ni Archbishop Brown si Manila Archbishop Jose Cardinal Advincula, ang mga obispo, pari, mga nakatalaga sa buhay-relihiyoso, layko, at lalo na ang mga kabataang kalahok sa kumperensya, at hinikayat ang lahat na patuloy na isabuhay ang diwa ng pagkakaibigang nagmumula kay Kristo bilang daan sa masiglang misyon ng ebanghelisasyon.

Isinagawa ang 12th Philippine Conference on New Evangelization (PCNE XII) noong Hulyo 24 hanggang 26, 2026 sa University of Santo Tomas sa Maynila na may temang “Sangkay: I Have Called You Friends” (Jn. 15:15), na naglalayong palalimin ang pakikipagkaibigan kay Hesus at paigtingin ang pakikibahagi ng bawat mananampalataya sa misyon ng Simbahan.

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